Paddy Tan
6 min readOct 22, 2024

Why Not Everyone is Suitable to Run Their Own Business

Starting a business can be an exhilarating journey filled with dreams of success, independence, and the thrill of being your own boss.

However, the reality is that entrepreneurship isn’t for everyone. It takes a unique blend of skills, personality traits, and circumstances to navigate the complex world of business ownership.

Glamour VS Reality

The image of entrepreneurship is often painted with vibrant colors: freedom, flexibility, and financial success. Social media is filled with stories of young entrepreneurs who have struck gold overnight.

‘Startup A got funded 5 million USD!’

‘Savvvy shareholders exit with millions in their pocket!”

However, behind these success stories lies a different story, no one sees you involved in countless hours of hard work, sleepless nights, and a rollercoaster of emotions and still comes out with nothing. Yes, all tthose sacrifices can still get nothing at all!

Many aspiring entrepreneurs are drawn to the allure of being their own boss without fully understanding the sacrifices required. Working hard does not necessarily mean there is success waiting for you. It may just get you from bad to worse despite putting all the years into building the business. That is the reality, that running a business demands resilience, commitment, and an unwavering belief in oneself. For some, this pressure can be overwhelming.

The Pressure to Succeed

In a world where success is often measured by wealth and status, like that other Startup founders who got himself a second Tesla (Singapore — A very expensive place to own a car for no more than 10 years).

This societal expectation can lead individuals to pursue entrepreneurship without considering whether it aligns with their true passions or strengths. The fear of failure can be paralyzing, leading to burnout and disillusionment too.

Self-Discipline and Motivation

One of the most critical traits for any entrepreneur is self-discipline. Unlike traditional jobs where there are set hours and external supervision, running a business requires an intrinsic motivation to stay productive. You don’t get to sleep as much, you put in the hard work more than anyone else. You see your loved ones much less and you are just there to solve your own problems and challenges, until you have someone running alongside with you, if they believe in you and the business.

Not everyone possesses this level of self-discipline; some thrive in structured environments where accountability is built-in.

If you find yourself struggling to stay focused or easily distracted by everyday life, entrepreneurship might not be the best path for you. It is very important to recognize your strengths and weaknesses even before you decided to start your own business.

Risk Tolerance

Entrepreneurship inherently involves risk. Whether it’s financial investment, time commitment, or emotional energy, starting a business requires a willingness to take chances. Some individuals are naturally risk-averse; they prefer stability and predictability in their lives.

For those who find comfort in routine and security, the unpredictable nature of running a business can lead to anxiety and stress. It’s vital to assess your comfort level with risk before diving into entrepreneurship.

Not everyone sees weekends as the time to rest and chill. Running your own business means more work on the weekends to catch up with what you are unable to finish on other days.

Adaptability and Problem-Solving Skills

In the world of business, change is constant. Markets evolve, customer preferences shift, and unexpected challenges arise.

Successful entrepreneurs must be adaptable problem solvers who can pivot quickly when faced with obstacles. The learning curve can be steep for those who are comfortable in a preset business environment where the set of challenges are fixed.

If you struggle with change or find it difficult to think on your feet, you may find entrepreneurship particularly challenging. The ability to embrace uncertainty and approach problems creatively is crucial for navigating the ups and downs of running a business.

Handling Rejection

Entrepreneurship often involves facing rejection—whether from potential clients, investors, or even friends and family who may not understand your vision. Not everyone has the emotional resilience to handle this kind of feedback without becoming discouraged.

If you find that criticism affects your self-esteem deeply or leads you to second-guess your abilities, it’s essential to consider how you might cope in an entrepreneurial environment where rejection is commonplace.

The worst type of feeling is when the team that started together, do not end up as the same members that lasted.

Stress Management

The stress associated with running a business can be crazy.

Juggling multiple responsibilities—from finances to marketing—can lead to feelings of overwhelm. Those who struggle with stress management may find it challenging to maintain their mental health while navigating the demands of entrepreneurship.

You just keep absorbing all that stress until one day, you decide that you cannot take in anymore and just walk away.

Recognizing your coping mechanisms and understanding how you deal with stress can help you determine whether starting a business aligns with your overall well-being.

Financial Stability

Starting a business often requires significant financial investment upfront without guaranteed returns. Not everyone has the financial cushion or willingness to take on debt that entrepreneurship may necessitate.

If you’re in a position where financial stability is paramount—perhaps due to family obligations or personal circumstances—taking on the risks associated with starting a business may not be feasible at this time.

My advice is to have at least 6 months of salaries prepared before dabbing into any business of your own. It will not save you from a rainy day, but it should help you to get a pair of boots to waddle around as the water picks up.

Understanding Financial Management

Running a successful business demands strong financial acumen. Entrepreneurs must understand budgeting, cash flow management, pricing strategies, and more. If numbers aren’t your forte or if managing finances causes you anxiety, it’s worth considering whether entrepreneurship is right for you.

Building a Network

A robust support system can make all the difference in an entrepreneur's journey. This network can include mentors, peers, family members, or professional organizations that provide guidance and encouragement along the way.

If you’re someone who prefers solitude or finds it challenging to connect with others on a professional level, you might struggle in an entrepreneurial environment where collaboration and networking are vital for success.

Being an introvert can be challenging because without the experience and any basis to engage others, you will have it tough to even present your thoughts and products to potential clients and partners.

Balancing Personal Life

Running a business often requires sacrifices in personal life—time spent away from family and friends can strain relationships. If maintaining personal connections is crucial for your happiness and well-being, consider how entrepreneurship might impact those relationships before making any decisions.

You will miss your kids events, anniversaries, birthday parties and anything that you used to be concerned about, will have been overwhelmed by your own work.

Recognizing Your Strengths and Weaknesses

Self-awareness plays an essential role in determining whether entrepreneurship is suitable for you. Understanding your strengths allows you to leverage them effectively while recognizing your weaknesses enables you to seek help or avoid pitfalls.

Take time for introspection: What are your passions? What skills do you excel at? What areas do you struggle with? By answering these questions honestly, you’ll gain clarity about whether starting a business aligns with your personal goals.

What is strength to you, may not necessarily be useful for business building. You have to recognize that as early as possible.

Seeking Guidance

Before embarking on an entrepreneurial journey, consider seeking advice from those who have experience in the field. Conversations with current entrepreneurs can provide valuable insights into what it truly means to run a business—both the highs and lows.

Finding Fulfillment Outside Entrepreneurship

It’s essential to remember that fulfillment doesn’t solely come from being an entrepreneur. Many people find joy and purpose in traditional careers or other pursuits that allow them to contribute meaningfully without taking on the risks associated with owning a business.

Consider exploring various career paths that align with your interests and values before committing yourself fully to entrepreneurship. There are countless ways to make an impact in the world without starting your own company.

Continuous Growth as a Goal

Ultimately, our journeys are about growth—becoming better versions of ourselves regardless of whether we choose entrepreneurship or another path. Focus on developing skills that resonate with you personally; invest time in learning new things that ignite your passion.

Remember that every experience contributes to our growth as individuals; each step taken—whether toward entrepreneurship or otherwise—is part of our unique story.

In conclusion, while entrepreneurship offers exciting opportunities for some individuals, it’s not suitable for everyone. Recognizing your strengths, weaknesses, emotional resilience, financial considerations, support systems—and most importantly—your personal aspirations will guide you toward making informed decisions about your future.

We’re all on this journey together—striving for growth and fulfillment in our lives. Whether through traditional employment or entrepreneurial ventures, what matters most is finding what resonates with us personally as we work towards becoming better versions of ourselves each day.

Embrace your unique path; celebrate your achievements—big or small—and remember: success isn’t defined solely by entrepreneurial endeavors but by living authentically according to our values and passions.

Paddy Tan
Paddy Tan

Written by Paddy Tan

I help Startups grow and scale in Southeast Asia. Within 100 days. Growth Strategist | Investor in Startups and SMEs | Scale Startups & Train Founders.

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